crackers444
Don Juan
I'm curious to hear your views, Do you place more importance on a girl's looks or personality? I find it would be nice to have both qualities, but it doesn't alway's work like that.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Are looks more important than personality these days?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Beast from the East
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Ofcourse.. Personality???.... what's that? I like them young, pretty and dumb.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Any DJ with any real and tangible success will tell you there is a lot more to a girl than her looks. Looks aren't good enough. Looks are a dime a dozen. What good are looks if the girl is psychotic, not attracted to you, a b1tch, STD-infested, or any other number of deal breakers? This is why it's important to qualify women. They do it to you, you should be doing it to them.
"ONLY" going after a girl for sex is fine, but I don't run into many guys these days who have the ability to JUST have sex with women, particularly attractive ones, and NOT get attached. Oneitis and an AFC mentality are rampant.
I personally believe looks are very important, but so is personality. I must be attracted to a girl physically, but also desire to be around her. Her femininity has to be particularly alluring. I can have sex with women who don't possess the qualities of LTR-worthy women, but my expectations and whether or not it's worth the trouble become a factor in my decision making.
"ONLY" going after a girl for sex is fine, but I don't run into many guys these days who have the ability to JUST have sex with women, particularly attractive ones, and NOT get attached. Oneitis and an AFC mentality are rampant.
I personally believe looks are very important, but so is personality. I must be attracted to a girl physically, but also desire to be around her. Her femininity has to be particularly alluring. I can have sex with women who don't possess the qualities of LTR-worthy women, but my expectations and whether or not it's worth the trouble become a factor in my decision making.
Prodigy746
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As long as the girl is not butt ugly and not super fat i am more concerned about personality.
If we are talking about GF
The way i see it is, you might spend 1-2 hours at the most having sex and enjoying the beauty but chances are you will have to spend 6-7 hrs with her hanging out and talking.
If we are talking about short term gf or one night stand than i could care less about personality... give me the goodies.
If we are talking about GF
The way i see it is, you might spend 1-2 hours at the most having sex and enjoying the beauty but chances are you will have to spend 6-7 hrs with her hanging out and talking.
If we are talking about short term gf or one night stand than i could care less about personality... give me the goodies.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i guess it depends. if i just wanna fvck the girl, then i can care less about her personality. but with a girlfriend, i would say half and half. i dont care how hot she is, but if i cant talk to the chick and be stimulated, then no way!
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Looks do matter but for LTR type of women, if she has a great personality with even above average looks, that is great for me. The really hot women are short term flings.
Demon Lord
Don Juan
I'd rather be with an average looking girl with a great personality than a nutty babe with a perfect body... In the end a p.ssy is a p.ssy.
But why would you like to chose when you can search and find a woman with a sexy body & a sexy mind to give you what you want ? :yes:
But why would you like to chose when you can search and find a woman with a sexy body & a sexy mind to give you what you want ? :yes: