It sucks man. But, if you are looking for a relationship, you will have a better chance with someone WHO IS LOOKING FOR THE SAME THING. Which means, she can't be a child, but a WOMAN. Younger ones who are 18, 19, 20 are just for fun. If it lasts, it lasts. But yeah, it's very frustrating. Like life, meeting the right person is about timing. Both parties have to eventually want the same thing. That is what relationships are about.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Are girls in the 20-24 year range even worth considering for a LTR?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hows this? im gaming an older woman, she wont tell me her age yet but i know shes about ten years older. maybe mid-late 30's and im 26. shes a virgin (asian) and never really had a man before. apparently shes never even had a proper kiss. she wants me to teach her 
she's confident, has money, good job, lives alone, nice person. she already calls me her man but we havent really done anythin yet. thats the kinda woman u wanna have. but finding a virgin is fuking hard. i was just lucky. (thats if its true! lol)
but hey, i believe that part about fuking and dumping the young ones. its a dead end with them girls.
she's confident, has money, good job, lives alone, nice person. she already calls me her man but we havent really done anythin yet. thats the kinda woman u wanna have. but finding a virgin is fuking hard. i was just lucky. (thats if its true! lol)but hey, i believe that part about fuking and dumping the young ones. its a dead end with them girls.
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yea agree 100%, but doesn't have to be bad as long as you know what's up. What's bad is if your an AFC, hardly meet any girls, and then when you finally do meet one, your under the false impression that it has a good chance of working out.Falcon25 said:
I think this is why AFC's dig their own graves from the very beginning, and is the cause of a lot of grief. Doesn't have to be bad though, but this is why people say to not take things seriously at this age.