It sucks man. But, if you are looking for a relationship, you will have a better chance with someone WHO IS LOOKING FOR THE SAME THING. Which means, she can't be a child, but a WOMAN. Younger ones who are 18, 19, 20 are just for fun. If it lasts, it lasts. But yeah, it's very frustrating. Like life, meeting the right person is about timing. Both parties have to eventually want the same thing. That is what relationships are about.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Are girls in the 20-24 year range even worth considering for a LTR?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
hows this? im gaming an older woman, she wont tell me her age yet but i know shes about ten years older. maybe mid-late 30's and im 26. shes a virgin (asian) and never really had a man before. apparently shes never even had a proper kiss. she wants me to teach her 
she's confident, has money, good job, lives alone, nice person. she already calls me her man but we havent really done anythin yet. thats the kinda woman u wanna have. but finding a virgin is fuking hard. i was just lucky. (thats if its true! lol)
but hey, i believe that part about fuking and dumping the young ones. its a dead end with them girls.
she's confident, has money, good job, lives alone, nice person. she already calls me her man but we havent really done anythin yet. thats the kinda woman u wanna have. but finding a virgin is fuking hard. i was just lucky. (thats if its true! lol)but hey, i believe that part about fuking and dumping the young ones. its a dead end with them girls.
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yea agree 100%, but doesn't have to be bad as long as you know what's up. What's bad is if your an AFC, hardly meet any girls, and then when you finally do meet one, your under the false impression that it has a good chance of working out.Falcon25 said:
I think this is why AFC's dig their own graves from the very beginning, and is the cause of a lot of grief. Doesn't have to be bad though, but this is why people say to not take things seriously at this age.