It sucks man. But, if you are looking for a relationship, you will have a better chance with someone WHO IS LOOKING FOR THE SAME THING. Which means, she can't be a child, but a WOMAN. Younger ones who are 18, 19, 20 are just for fun. If it lasts, it lasts. But yeah, it's very frustrating. Like life, meeting the right person is about timing. Both parties have to eventually want the same thing. That is what relationships are about.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Are girls in the 20-24 year range even worth considering for a LTR?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
hows this? im gaming an older woman, she wont tell me her age yet but i know shes about ten years older. maybe mid-late 30's and im 26. shes a virgin (asian) and never really had a man before. apparently shes never even had a proper kiss. she wants me to teach her 
she's confident, has money, good job, lives alone, nice person. she already calls me her man but we havent really done anythin yet. thats the kinda woman u wanna have. but finding a virgin is fuking hard. i was just lucky. (thats if its true! lol)
but hey, i believe that part about fuking and dumping the young ones. its a dead end with them girls.
she's confident, has money, good job, lives alone, nice person. she already calls me her man but we havent really done anythin yet. thats the kinda woman u wanna have. but finding a virgin is fuking hard. i was just lucky. (thats if its true! lol)but hey, i believe that part about fuking and dumping the young ones. its a dead end with them girls.
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yea agree 100%, but doesn't have to be bad as long as you know what's up. What's bad is if your an AFC, hardly meet any girls, and then when you finally do meet one, your under the false impression that it has a good chance of working out.Falcon25 said:
I think this is why AFC's dig their own graves from the very beginning, and is the cause of a lot of grief. Doesn't have to be bad though, but this is why people say to not take things seriously at this age.