It sucks man. But, if you are looking for a relationship, you will have a better chance with someone WHO IS LOOKING FOR THE SAME THING. Which means, she can't be a child, but a WOMAN. Younger ones who are 18, 19, 20 are just for fun. If it lasts, it lasts. But yeah, it's very frustrating. Like life, meeting the right person is about timing. Both parties have to eventually want the same thing. That is what relationships are about.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Are girls in the 20-24 year range even worth considering for a LTR?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
hows this? im gaming an older woman, she wont tell me her age yet but i know shes about ten years older. maybe mid-late 30's and im 26. shes a virgin (asian) and never really had a man before. apparently shes never even had a proper kiss. she wants me to teach her 
she's confident, has money, good job, lives alone, nice person. she already calls me her man but we havent really done anythin yet. thats the kinda woman u wanna have. but finding a virgin is fuking hard. i was just lucky. (thats if its true! lol)
but hey, i believe that part about fuking and dumping the young ones. its a dead end with them girls.
she's confident, has money, good job, lives alone, nice person. she already calls me her man but we havent really done anythin yet. thats the kinda woman u wanna have. but finding a virgin is fuking hard. i was just lucky. (thats if its true! lol)but hey, i believe that part about fuking and dumping the young ones. its a dead end with them girls.
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yea agree 100%, but doesn't have to be bad as long as you know what's up. What's bad is if your an AFC, hardly meet any girls, and then when you finally do meet one, your under the false impression that it has a good chance of working out.Falcon25 said:
I think this is why AFC's dig their own graves from the very beginning, and is the cause of a lot of grief. Doesn't have to be bad though, but this is why people say to not take things seriously at this age.