"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are flowers necessary?

DJinTraining06

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I been dating my girl for about a month now and i haven't gotten her flowers or anything else for that matter even once yet. Is this important? Should i get her a rose or somethin sometime soon? I feel like we have great physical chemsitry were always all over each other and she calls alot so its obviosuly goin great. Sometimes i just feel were gettin a little too buddy buddy tho.

Do u guys buy ur girlfriends a rose or something small like that every once in a while? I feel like a rose for no reason is kinda corny, is there somethin better i could get? Or i should i not get her anything cuz thats what valentines and b-days r for.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jay Jay

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All I can say on this subject is to NEVER EVER get flowers or other gifts as an apology.
 

Lust

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You don't need to give her any gifts, unless you have been seening her for a long time (Like LTR)and something special has come up (Eg Birthday). If you don't give her something on a situation like that, maybe she'll start thinkning you are inconsiderate or something i dunno.

But, if you want to make sure you guys don't get too buddy buddy, set up a romantic, nice, and original date, make sure it's not just plain going to dinner, but also don't look like a tryhard setting it up.

After the date, what i think is good is a nice sensual massage for an hour, then fvck her brains out for another.
 

Fortunate_Juan

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Flowers are neccessary...


to get the smell of sex out of my room.
 

Bible_Belt

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I agree that gifts are not to be used as bribes; they are rewards for good behavior.

http://www.matsuya-coffee.com/shop/images/ferrero-rocher.jpg

I have had very good luck with these. Get the three-pack, not a bigger size. Try wal-green's or a drug store. They are like a buck, and well worth it. Every woman loves them. The correct pronunciation of the French name is fah-RER-ro RO-shay.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WC2

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For your girlfriend? Valentines day.. not really necessary any other time really.
 

jamescr73

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buy flowers that are already dead, thats what theyre going to do anyway.
 
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