"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Are flowers necessary?

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I been dating my girl for about a month now and i haven't gotten her flowers or anything else for that matter even once yet. Is this important? Should i get her a rose or somethin sometime soon? I feel like we have great physical chemsitry were always all over each other and she calls alot so its obviosuly goin great. Sometimes i just feel were gettin a little too buddy buddy tho.

Do u guys buy ur girlfriends a rose or something small like that every once in a while? I feel like a rose for no reason is kinda corny, is there somethin better i could get? Or i should i not get her anything cuz thats what valentines and b-days r for.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All I can say on this subject is to NEVER EVER get flowers or other gifts as an apology.
 
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You don't need to give her any gifts, unless you have been seening her for a long time (Like LTR)and something special has come up (Eg Birthday). If you don't give her something on a situation like that, maybe she'll start thinkning you are inconsiderate or something i dunno.

But, if you want to make sure you guys don't get too buddy buddy, set up a romantic, nice, and original date, make sure it's not just plain going to dinner, but also don't look like a tryhard setting it up.

After the date, what i think is good is a nice sensual massage for an hour, then fvck her brains out for another.
 
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Flowers are neccessary...


to get the smell of sex out of my room.
 
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I agree that gifts are not to be used as bribes; they are rewards for good behavior.

http://www.matsuya-coffee.com/shop/images/ferrero-rocher.jpg

I have had very good luck with these. Get the three-pack, not a bigger size. Try wal-green's or a drug store. They are like a buck, and well worth it. Every woman loves them. The correct pronunciation of the French name is fah-RER-ro RO-shay.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For your girlfriend? Valentines day.. not really necessary any other time really.
 
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buy flowers that are already dead, thats what theyre going to do anyway.
 
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