"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are flowers necessary?

DJinTraining06

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I been dating my girl for about a month now and i haven't gotten her flowers or anything else for that matter even once yet. Is this important? Should i get her a rose or somethin sometime soon? I feel like we have great physical chemsitry were always all over each other and she calls alot so its obviosuly goin great. Sometimes i just feel were gettin a little too buddy buddy tho.

Do u guys buy ur girlfriends a rose or something small like that every once in a while? I feel like a rose for no reason is kinda corny, is there somethin better i could get? Or i should i not get her anything cuz thats what valentines and b-days r for.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jay Jay

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All I can say on this subject is to NEVER EVER get flowers or other gifts as an apology.
 

Lust

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You don't need to give her any gifts, unless you have been seening her for a long time (Like LTR)and something special has come up (Eg Birthday). If you don't give her something on a situation like that, maybe she'll start thinkning you are inconsiderate or something i dunno.

But, if you want to make sure you guys don't get too buddy buddy, set up a romantic, nice, and original date, make sure it's not just plain going to dinner, but also don't look like a tryhard setting it up.

After the date, what i think is good is a nice sensual massage for an hour, then fvck her brains out for another.
 

Fortunate_Juan

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Flowers are neccessary...


to get the smell of sex out of my room.
 

Bible_Belt

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I agree that gifts are not to be used as bribes; they are rewards for good behavior.

http://www.matsuya-coffee.com/shop/images/ferrero-rocher.jpg

I have had very good luck with these. Get the three-pack, not a bigger size. Try wal-green's or a drug store. They are like a buck, and well worth it. Every woman loves them. The correct pronunciation of the French name is fah-RER-ro RO-shay.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WC2

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For your girlfriend? Valentines day.. not really necessary any other time really.
 

jamescr73

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buy flowers that are already dead, thats what theyre going to do anyway.
 
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