"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are fat chicks easier to game?

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Unlike a lot of guys here, I actually don't mind a girl who is a bit overweight so long as she is young, pretty, and fun. In fact, a lot of crushes I have had in the past were chubby.

That being said, I don't feel any more confident approaching them. This could be due to my social anxiety that I am finally getting over, but I do know that they probably still have a lot of guys interested, especially if she has a really pretty face and is part of a pretty cool social circle.

What do you guys think? Should I approach them differently than a girl who is not so overweight?"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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From my experience if you have a higher SMV than them, they are usually more accepting of your attention to them than hotter girls would be unless other negative personal matters are in play with them.
 
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From my experience if you have a higher SMV than them, they are usually more accepting of your attention to them than hotter girls would be unless other negative personal matters are in play with them.
So would a chubby college girl be more open to a broke older college student?
 

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Money or age difference is not involved in sexual attraction.
 

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Economics 101: supply and demand
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My dad always said "If you don't want competition, date a fat girl".

Only once did I date a fat girl, but she was 110 when I met her and ballooned.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any type of girl is easier to game so long as she is interested in you.
 

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lol, omg, too many replies to comment on, lol

I would say, just game them like you would any chick. Some of them will be eating up the attention, some of them will be happy with the attention, some of them will think they are the queen and you should worship them. Pretty much your normal run of the mill group of chicks. Just run your game and see who responds.
 

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Some of them will be eating

I'd say that's a safe bet.
Make sure the date is at an "all you can eat" buffet. Otherwise, you'll need a fat wallet, too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Unlike a lot of guys here, I actually don't mind a girl who is a bit overweight so long as she is young, pretty, and fun. In fact, a lot of crushes I have had in the past were chubby.

That being said, I don't feel any more confident approaching them. This could be due to my social anxiety that I am finally getting over, but I do know that they probably still have a lot of guys interested, especially if she has a really pretty face and is part of a pretty cool social circle.

What do you guys think? Should I approach them differently than a girl who is not so overweight?"
Dude due to social media and OLD, fat chicks are just as stuck up as the fit chicks lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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