"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are fat chicks easier to game?

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Unlike a lot of guys here, I actually don't mind a girl who is a bit overweight so long as she is young, pretty, and fun. In fact, a lot of crushes I have had in the past were chubby.

That being said, I don't feel any more confident approaching them. This could be due to my social anxiety that I am finally getting over, but I do know that they probably still have a lot of guys interested, especially if she has a really pretty face and is part of a pretty cool social circle.

What do you guys think? Should I approach them differently than a girl who is not so overweight?"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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From my experience if you have a higher SMV than them, they are usually more accepting of your attention to them than hotter girls would be unless other negative personal matters are in play with them.
 
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billtx49 said:
From my experience if you have a higher SMV than them, they are usually more accepting of your attention to them than hotter girls would be unless other negative personal matters are in play with them.
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So would a chubby college girl be more open to a broke older college student?
 
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Money or age difference is not involved in sexual attraction.
 
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Economics 101: supply and demand
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My dad always said "If you don't want competition, date a fat girl".

Only once did I date a fat girl, but she was 110 when I met her and ballooned.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any type of girl is easier to game so long as she is interested in you.
 
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lol, omg, too many replies to comment on, lol

I would say, just game them like you would any chick. Some of them will be eating up the attention, some of them will be happy with the attention, some of them will think they are the queen and you should worship them. Pretty much your normal run of the mill group of chicks. Just run your game and see who responds.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
Some of them will be eating

I'd say that's a safe bet.
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Make sure the date is at an "all you can eat" buffet. Otherwise, you'll need a fat wallet, too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Epicwinguy said:
Unlike a lot of guys here, I actually don't mind a girl who is a bit overweight so long as she is young, pretty, and fun. In fact, a lot of crushes I have had in the past were chubby.

That being said, I don't feel any more confident approaching them. This could be due to my social anxiety that I am finally getting over, but I do know that they probably still have a lot of guys interested, especially if she has a really pretty face and is part of a pretty cool social circle.

What do you guys think? Should I approach them differently than a girl who is not so overweight?"
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Dude due to social media and OLD, fat chicks are just as stuck up as the fit chicks lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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