"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are fat chicks easier to game?

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Unlike a lot of guys here, I actually don't mind a girl who is a bit overweight so long as she is young, pretty, and fun. In fact, a lot of crushes I have had in the past were chubby.

That being said, I don't feel any more confident approaching them. This could be due to my social anxiety that I am finally getting over, but I do know that they probably still have a lot of guys interested, especially if she has a really pretty face and is part of a pretty cool social circle.

What do you guys think? Should I approach them differently than a girl who is not so overweight?"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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From my experience if you have a higher SMV than them, they are usually more accepting of your attention to them than hotter girls would be unless other negative personal matters are in play with them.
 
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From my experience if you have a higher SMV than them, they are usually more accepting of your attention to them than hotter girls would be unless other negative personal matters are in play with them.
So would a chubby college girl be more open to a broke older college student?
 

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Money or age difference is not involved in sexual attraction.
 

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Economics 101: supply and demand
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My dad always said "If you don't want competition, date a fat girl".

Only once did I date a fat girl, but she was 110 when I met her and ballooned.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Any type of girl is easier to game so long as she is interested in you.
 

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lol, omg, too many replies to comment on, lol

I would say, just game them like you would any chick. Some of them will be eating up the attention, some of them will be happy with the attention, some of them will think they are the queen and you should worship them. Pretty much your normal run of the mill group of chicks. Just run your game and see who responds.
 

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Some of them will be eating

I'd say that's a safe bet.
Make sure the date is at an "all you can eat" buffet. Otherwise, you'll need a fat wallet, too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Unlike a lot of guys here, I actually don't mind a girl who is a bit overweight so long as she is young, pretty, and fun. In fact, a lot of crushes I have had in the past were chubby.

That being said, I don't feel any more confident approaching them. This could be due to my social anxiety that I am finally getting over, but I do know that they probably still have a lot of guys interested, especially if she has a really pretty face and is part of a pretty cool social circle.

What do you guys think? Should I approach them differently than a girl who is not so overweight?"
Dude due to social media and OLD, fat chicks are just as stuck up as the fit chicks lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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