"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are DJs Repressed AFCs???

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I'm just playing devil's advocate, so don't flame me. Think about it:

1. Waits at least six days to call her after getting the number but he has a hard time waiting at least six minutes.

2. Surrounds himself with several women, when he would rather be with just one.

3. Watches football with the guys when he'd rather be playing touch football with the girl.

4. Withholds complimenting the girl even though she looks great everytime he sees her.

5. Keeps himself busy when he would rather be getting busy.

6. Neghits the girl when he would rather be hitting on her.

7. Does the "****y and funny" routine but feels "tingly and funny" every time she is near him.

8. Blasts Snoop Dogg in his car when the windows are rolled down, but plays some Luther Vandross when the windows are rolled up.

9. Writes the girl off when he would rather be writing her poetry.

10. Nexts the girl when she flakes but still wonders when he will see her next.

What do you think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Agreed completely. I think this describes anybody who looks at this stuff as black and white.

But a true DJ does what he desires and desires what he does.
 
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I dont think so. if you wanna dig deep enough, all DJs carry "AFC habits" that need to be kept in check. But I dont think a true DJ is ever in denial over his being a DJ. if he wanted to play Luther Vandross with the windows down, he would do it!

"Does the "****y and funny" routine but feels "tingly and funny" every time she is near him."
This sounds like something out of one of those "what a perfect boyfriend would do" chain emails
 
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Juan_Man said:
I'm just playing devil's advocate, so don't flame me. Think about it:

1. Waits at least six days to call her after getting the number but he has a hard time waiting at least six minutes.

2. Surrounds himself with several women, when he would rather be with just one.

3. Watches football with the guys when he'd rather be playing touch football with the girl.

4. Withholds complimenting the girl even though she looks great everytime he sees her.

5. Keeps himself busy when he would rather be getting busy.

6. Neghits the girl when he would rather be hitting on her.

7. Does the "****y and funny" routine but feels "tingly and funny" every time she is near him.

8. Blasts Snoop Dogg in his car when the windows are rolled down, but plays some Luther Vandross when the windows are rolled up.

9. Writes the girl off when he would rather be writing her poetry.

10. Nexts the girl when she flakes but still wonders when he will see her next.

What do you think?
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I think if you're trying to be something you're not, in any shape or form, then it's wrong. Go with what you feel.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Juan_Man said:
8. Blasts Snoop Dogg in his car when the windows are rolled down, but plays some Luther Vandross when the windows are rolled up.
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Funny sh1t!
 
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Not repressed.Bettered.Improved.Everyone has certain feelings.It's how you act on them.You'll get your chance w/ what you want to do later.
 
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There are so called "DJ rules", you touched on a few in your post.

A repressed AFC follows the guidelines because he needs something to hold his hand.

A true DJ does what he has to do within reason. He follows his own rules and paths to success.
 
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