I lost my virginity in November. I had unprotected sex with her that time, and multiple times after. I used the pull out method, and never used a condom with her. I'm no longer having sex with her, and I've had sex with this other girl twice in the last month, most recently about an hour ago. I understand how stupid unprotected sex is, so I bought a box of condoms and used them with this chick. They are Trojan Ultra Thins. The problem is, they are EXTREMELY tight, to the point where they slightly hurt. I wasn't even able to *** both times, and had to wack off to porn after she left my dorm. Let me just say that my d1ck isn't huge, its about average length. Is this normal?
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Are condoms supposed to be extremely tight?
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Bible_Belt
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Try a Magnum. They make one that is not 'XL.'
Mike32ct
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The very thin condoms are a tighter fit. But you don't want one too tight that its uncomfortable.
I like D u r ex Ext ra Sensitive.
I like D u r ex Ext ra Sensitive.
QuadDeuces
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Durex Fetherlite's are tight for me too, they sometimes tear too.
While Im not that excessively big.
While Im not that excessively big.
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It depends, they're supposed to be tight so that they don't fall off, but not so tight that having sex is no fun. Magnums usually fit pretty well.
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the condoms they give free at planned parenthood are way too tight.
it actually is cool because girls think i have a huge **** lol. they are seriously like kids size, i don't get it. Some other brands are the same way (Lifestyles i think).
i just get trojans. they are a lot better.
it actually is cool because girls think i have a huge **** lol. they are seriously like kids size, i don't get it. Some other brands are the same way (Lifestyles i think).
i just get trojans. they are a lot better.
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Well congrats for getting rid of your V-card and obtain the deluxe subscription by banging other girls right after, regarding the condom problem I hear you man.
They give me any possible problem, sometime they put so much pressure that it seems I have to cvm right after, other times they are so tight that I go soft while other time I cvm because I know that Im fvcking and not because I feel her pvssy.
Same here btw c0ck in the normal range, but I believe there's also a psychological component, without condom I never had any problem with going soft or cvmming too fast, try to use them when you wank to get used to it maybe it could help.
They give me any possible problem, sometime they put so much pressure that it seems I have to cvm right after, other times they are so tight that I go soft while other time I cvm because I know that Im fvcking and not because I feel her pvssy.
Same here btw c0ck in the normal range, but I believe there's also a psychological component, without condom I never had any problem with going soft or cvmming too fast, try to use them when you wank to get used to it maybe it could help.
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I'm gonna buy some of those small condoms, and a box of magnums.
Then i'll open the magnums and replace them with the small condoms that barely fit.
I will get her to put the condom on for me, and her eyes will light up when she sees Magnum. Then she won't even be able to get it on and think i have the biggest **** in the world.
I dont know why I never thought of this before.
Then i'll open the magnums and replace them with the small condoms that barely fit.
I will get her to put the condom on for me, and her eyes will light up when she sees Magnum. Then she won't even be able to get it on and think i have the biggest **** in the world.
I dont know why I never thought of this before.
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That would be like putting a small size t-shirt on a xxl box and expect the clerk of the shop not to realize it despite the frequent experience in the field....maybe that would work on a just hired clerk below 19.1-800-HellNo said:
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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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yea i was joking.
But you know there is someone out there who tried it.
Girls have told me many stories about guys who buy Magnums when they shouldn't be.
But you know there is someone out there who tried it.
Girls have told me many stories about guys who buy Magnums when they shouldn't be.