MatureDJ
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Are American men this desperate - pay a pro for a hug?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The_flying_dutchman
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Depending on how you look at it, that's actually a really inexpensive lap dance.
switch
Master Don Juan
do i want my kid to grow up in this world? No.
*runs to get a vasectomy*
*runs to get a vasectomy*
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Sadly, this is the future of beta-western society.
They've crap like this in Japan for years. There's a whole range of "experiences" you can buy here, from ear cleaning to cuddling.
And it's NOT a front for hookers.
They even have "cat cafe's" where a largely female clientele pays to sit around in a coffee shop filled up with cats.
What does this mean?
One the one hand it just means that there's still enough savvy entrepreneurs around to look out into the world and figure out an untapped market.
On the other hand, that a business could be successful means that not only are betas becoming more and more prevalent, the shame associated with it is rapidly disappearing.
But its a big world. If you look for sorry betas, you'll find them.
If you look for hotties desperate for guys like you, you'll find them too.
They've crap like this in Japan for years. There's a whole range of "experiences" you can buy here, from ear cleaning to cuddling.
And it's NOT a front for hookers.
They even have "cat cafe's" where a largely female clientele pays to sit around in a coffee shop filled up with cats.
What does this mean?
One the one hand it just means that there's still enough savvy entrepreneurs around to look out into the world and figure out an untapped market.
On the other hand, that a business could be successful means that not only are betas becoming more and more prevalent, the shame associated with it is rapidly disappearing.
But its a big world. If you look for sorry betas, you'll find them.
If you look for hotties desperate for guys like you, you'll find them too.
switch
Master Don Juan
beta? at least the betagoes for punany , these guys are like omega lol
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Let us know how much they want for something a little more involvedsyemour said:
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
This **** got me thinking. I am going to get like 10 women with bad ass feet, and have a foot massage servicef where dudes can play with hot women's feet for like 30-60 mintues lol.
I would without question pay for that ****.
I would without question pay for that ****.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mike32ct
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Plenty of guys are just lonely and starved for attention/affection.
I know a female who was a phone sex operator. She said a certain percentage of guys called just to have someone to talk to. They weren't looking to talk about sex and/or fap. They just wanted a conversation with a female and someone to LISTEN to them without rejecting them and being a bytch. It's kind of sad, but it's reality. So I'm not at all surprised that a chick could sell hugs/cuddling. So no, I don't think it's a front for prostitution.
I know a female who was a phone sex operator. She said a certain percentage of guys called just to have someone to talk to. They weren't looking to talk about sex and/or fap. They just wanted a conversation with a female and someone to LISTEN to them without rejecting them and being a bytch. It's kind of sad, but it's reality. So I'm not at all surprised that a chick could sell hugs/cuddling. So no, I don't think it's a front for prostitution.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
A 'mouth hug' is the only hug you should pay for.