MatureDJ
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Are American men this desperate - pay a pro for a hug?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The_flying_dutchman
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Depending on how you look at it, that's actually a really inexpensive lap dance.
switch
Master Don Juan
do i want my kid to grow up in this world? No.
*runs to get a vasectomy*
*runs to get a vasectomy*
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Sadly, this is the future of beta-western society.
They've crap like this in Japan for years. There's a whole range of "experiences" you can buy here, from ear cleaning to cuddling.
And it's NOT a front for hookers.
They even have "cat cafe's" where a largely female clientele pays to sit around in a coffee shop filled up with cats.
What does this mean?
One the one hand it just means that there's still enough savvy entrepreneurs around to look out into the world and figure out an untapped market.
On the other hand, that a business could be successful means that not only are betas becoming more and more prevalent, the shame associated with it is rapidly disappearing.
But its a big world. If you look for sorry betas, you'll find them.
If you look for hotties desperate for guys like you, you'll find them too.
They've crap like this in Japan for years. There's a whole range of "experiences" you can buy here, from ear cleaning to cuddling.
And it's NOT a front for hookers.
They even have "cat cafe's" where a largely female clientele pays to sit around in a coffee shop filled up with cats.
What does this mean?
One the one hand it just means that there's still enough savvy entrepreneurs around to look out into the world and figure out an untapped market.
On the other hand, that a business could be successful means that not only are betas becoming more and more prevalent, the shame associated with it is rapidly disappearing.
But its a big world. If you look for sorry betas, you'll find them.
If you look for hotties desperate for guys like you, you'll find them too.
switch
Master Don Juan
beta? at least the betagoes for punany , these guys are like omega lol
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Let us know how much they want for something a little more involvedsyemour said:
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
This **** got me thinking. I am going to get like 10 women with bad ass feet, and have a foot massage servicef where dudes can play with hot women's feet for like 30-60 mintues lol.
I would without question pay for that ****.
I would without question pay for that ****.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mike32ct
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Plenty of guys are just lonely and starved for attention/affection.
I know a female who was a phone sex operator. She said a certain percentage of guys called just to have someone to talk to. They weren't looking to talk about sex and/or fap. They just wanted a conversation with a female and someone to LISTEN to them without rejecting them and being a bytch. It's kind of sad, but it's reality. So I'm not at all surprised that a chick could sell hugs/cuddling. So no, I don't think it's a front for prostitution.
I know a female who was a phone sex operator. She said a certain percentage of guys called just to have someone to talk to. They weren't looking to talk about sex and/or fap. They just wanted a conversation with a female and someone to LISTEN to them without rejecting them and being a bytch. It's kind of sad, but it's reality. So I'm not at all surprised that a chick could sell hugs/cuddling. So no, I don't think it's a front for prostitution.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
A 'mouth hug' is the only hug you should pay for.