"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are all the *men* on online dating really fat & ugly?

MatureDJ

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I was looking at this video, and it got me thinking:


my opinion: It's been my experience, at least in the USA, that the opposite applies. :mad:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've seen a Rosie Odonnell lookalike leave her husband for a good looking guy built like a lumberjack on OLD. It's the opposite.

I do imagine overall there are less attractive men in general on OLD, however these women are dating waaaaay above their IRL league on there.

This and most men are dating below unless the men are in the top 20%

OLD is so overrated it really depends on the guy/area/and other tangible factors

The field is king
 

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Agreed. I mean I can't even believe how attractive some of the IRL women are that give me the time of day even in my sh1tty market when all my flaws are basically out there, compared with very, very unattractive matches on OLD using cherrypicked photos. It's really absurd.

One example too, a girl no one in my social circle wanted to date even though she was above average looking(6/10) bc boring personality matched with a few professional male models and dated them.

Another example in reverse, a girl who is a 10/10 in my social circle fvcked and dated scrubs in the circle but then also Harvey Weinstein and a few famous rockers and pro athletes lol. Social circle really is needed(but the field too, which builds your circle indirectly).

she smashed Harvey Weinstein? bwhahahahahha

But yeah the same is true in my area. In the field girls give the time of day that wouldn't online. It's like night and day
 

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She actually did lol
Hopefully you have some details on this. I have a hunch that most of the starlettes that Weinstein banged were just about undressing themselves when he would say something like, "I have so many actresses that could play this role; how do I make a choice?" ;)
 
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