"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are all the *men* on online dating really fat & ugly?

MatureDJ

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I was looking at this video, and it got me thinking:


my opinion: It's been my experience, at least in the USA, that the opposite applies. :mad:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've seen a Rosie Odonnell lookalike leave her husband for a good looking guy built like a lumberjack on OLD. It's the opposite.

I do imagine overall there are less attractive men in general on OLD, however these women are dating waaaaay above their IRL league on there.

This and most men are dating below unless the men are in the top 20%

OLD is so overrated it really depends on the guy/area/and other tangible factors

The field is king
 

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Agreed. I mean I can't even believe how attractive some of the IRL women are that give me the time of day even in my sh1tty market when all my flaws are basically out there, compared with very, very unattractive matches on OLD using cherrypicked photos. It's really absurd.

One example too, a girl no one in my social circle wanted to date even though she was above average looking(6/10) bc boring personality matched with a few professional male models and dated them.

Another example in reverse, a girl who is a 10/10 in my social circle fvcked and dated scrubs in the circle but then also Harvey Weinstein and a few famous rockers and pro athletes lol. Social circle really is needed(but the field too, which builds your circle indirectly).

she smashed Harvey Weinstein? bwhahahahahha

But yeah the same is true in my area. In the field girls give the time of day that wouldn't online. It's like night and day
 

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She actually did lol
Hopefully you have some details on this. I have a hunch that most of the starlettes that Weinstein banged were just about undressing themselves when he would say something like, "I have so many actresses that could play this role; how do I make a choice?" ;)
 
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