"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are all the *men* on online dating really fat & ugly?

MatureDJ

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I was looking at this video, and it got me thinking:


my opinion: It's been my experience, at least in the USA, that the opposite applies. :mad:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've seen a Rosie Odonnell lookalike leave her husband for a good looking guy built like a lumberjack on OLD. It's the opposite.

I do imagine overall there are less attractive men in general on OLD, however these women are dating waaaaay above their IRL league on there.

This and most men are dating below unless the men are in the top 20%

OLD is so overrated it really depends on the guy/area/and other tangible factors

The field is king
 

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Agreed. I mean I can't even believe how attractive some of the IRL women are that give me the time of day even in my sh1tty market when all my flaws are basically out there, compared with very, very unattractive matches on OLD using cherrypicked photos. It's really absurd.

One example too, a girl no one in my social circle wanted to date even though she was above average looking(6/10) bc boring personality matched with a few professional male models and dated them.

Another example in reverse, a girl who is a 10/10 in my social circle fvcked and dated scrubs in the circle but then also Harvey Weinstein and a few famous rockers and pro athletes lol. Social circle really is needed(but the field too, which builds your circle indirectly).

she smashed Harvey Weinstein? bwhahahahahha

But yeah the same is true in my area. In the field girls give the time of day that wouldn't online. It's like night and day
 

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She actually did lol
Hopefully you have some details on this. I have a hunch that most of the starlettes that Weinstein banged were just about undressing themselves when he would say something like, "I have so many actresses that could play this role; how do I make a choice?" ;)
 
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