"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aquard Silence

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One particular untouched subject everyone seems to deal with is the aquard silence. Its been my theory lately those silent moments won't be so aquard if you don't let it be. Let me explain.

Women seem to be wonderful at guaging our comfort levels. Your talking to them and that silence comes up. Thinking every good DJ should keep the conversationg going ALL THE TIME you guys start to sweat it and girls sence that.

Don't run the women over by constantly trying to lead the convo. Don't waste those silent moments by trying to think of something to say about yourself. Women can tell when your trying to push something so don't try and push it. Just give them a nice smile and enjoy the silence... Be comfortable with it, don't let it be so aquard to you and it won't be so much to her.

The conversation isn't comming to an end. Your little silence won't end all your chances with her. Don't sweat it and she won't either. Now when you get back into the convo she'll give you clues as to what to bring up. JUST RELAX!!!! Don't sweat it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The awkward silence is something I haven't yet had a problem with, nor had a problem with keeping the conversation running. The only way a girl's going to realize that you're trying to get her to keep going about herself is everytime if you end up going back to the same run of the mill questions asking her what she's doing or whatever.
 
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just be interested in the conversation.

oh and btw...no offense but how old are you? your grammar/spelling is pretty awful.

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I knew a genius-IQ woman who sometimes would go quiet, but she was really winding up to say something thoughtful. I had to learn to stop and let her talk.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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