"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Approching Quota

FranklinsTower

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Me and a friend are trying to make a quota for approaching girls this summer, we are going to be eachothers wingmen. We are trying to come up with a strategy. does anybody have any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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baffledking

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If you approach a two-set flirt with the less-attractive first, as this will naturally cause the better looking one to feel jealous and try to grab your attention. Also, this helps avoid the less-attractive one from turning into a ****-block as she is undoubtedly used to being overlooked when out with her hot friend.

My advice is to avoid the bars and clubs and instead hit the shopping malls, promenades, cafes etc... as her defenses will be down and she will be more inclined to be affable, enabling you more time and opportunity to engage her.
If she is shopping, ask her for advice on clothes for some special occasion...

Make her laugh as quickly as possible; once she laughs, she will be comfortable with questions.
 

KneghtRyder

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I dont know ,,but i used to do this...

NUMBER or 10 rejections whiever comes first you stop

u go until 10 rejections until u get a number.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Screw the quota BS, just do it.
 
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Just join the general approach competition on here and try to get the most amount of approaches.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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