"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Approching Quota

FranklinsTower

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Me and a friend are trying to make a quota for approaching girls this summer, we are going to be eachothers wingmen. We are trying to come up with a strategy. does anybody have any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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baffledking

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If you approach a two-set flirt with the less-attractive first, as this will naturally cause the better looking one to feel jealous and try to grab your attention. Also, this helps avoid the less-attractive one from turning into a ****-block as she is undoubtedly used to being overlooked when out with her hot friend.

My advice is to avoid the bars and clubs and instead hit the shopping malls, promenades, cafes etc... as her defenses will be down and she will be more inclined to be affable, enabling you more time and opportunity to engage her.
If she is shopping, ask her for advice on clothes for some special occasion...

Make her laugh as quickly as possible; once she laughs, she will be comfortable with questions.
 

KneghtRyder

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I dont know ,,but i used to do this...

NUMBER or 10 rejections whiever comes first you stop

u go until 10 rejections until u get a number.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Screw the quota BS, just do it.
 
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Just join the general approach competition on here and try to get the most amount of approaches.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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