"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Approching Quota

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FranklinsTower

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Me and a friend are trying to make a quota for approaching girls this summer, we are going to be eachothers wingmen. We are trying to come up with a strategy. does anybody have any suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you approach a two-set flirt with the less-attractive first, as this will naturally cause the better looking one to feel jealous and try to grab your attention. Also, this helps avoid the less-attractive one from turning into a ****-block as she is undoubtedly used to being overlooked when out with her hot friend.

My advice is to avoid the bars and clubs and instead hit the shopping malls, promenades, cafes etc... as her defenses will be down and she will be more inclined to be affable, enabling you more time and opportunity to engage her.
If she is shopping, ask her for advice on clothes for some special occasion...

Make her laugh as quickly as possible; once she laughs, she will be comfortable with questions.
 
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I dont know ,,but i used to do this...

NUMBER or 10 rejections whiever comes first you stop

u go until 10 rejections until u get a number.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Screw the quota BS, just do it.
 
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Just join the general approach competition on here and try to get the most amount of approaches.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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