"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Approching Quota

FranklinsTower

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Me and a friend are trying to make a quota for approaching girls this summer, we are going to be eachothers wingmen. We are trying to come up with a strategy. does anybody have any suggestions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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baffledking

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If you approach a two-set flirt with the less-attractive first, as this will naturally cause the better looking one to feel jealous and try to grab your attention. Also, this helps avoid the less-attractive one from turning into a ****-block as she is undoubtedly used to being overlooked when out with her hot friend.

My advice is to avoid the bars and clubs and instead hit the shopping malls, promenades, cafes etc... as her defenses will be down and she will be more inclined to be affable, enabling you more time and opportunity to engage her.
If she is shopping, ask her for advice on clothes for some special occasion...

Make her laugh as quickly as possible; once she laughs, she will be comfortable with questions.
 

KneghtRyder

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I dont know ,,but i used to do this...

NUMBER or 10 rejections whiever comes first you stop

u go until 10 rejections until u get a number.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Screw the quota BS, just do it.
 
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Just join the general approach competition on here and try to get the most amount of approaches.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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