"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have a Q, does approaching more and more women make you better and helps your game? Please give examples of what you learnt.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've learned that harshness of rejection and rejection comes more often from lower rated HB's than higher ones. I've got the worst "get away from me," "why are you talking to me" looks from 5's and 6's. This happens much less with 7's and higher. Maybe they have more experience with giving rejection and are more secure with themselves. Although I have been rejected less often from higher rated HB's than lower rated ones.
 
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The best "DJ" is a "care less" DJ! He accepts the consequences and moves on without remorse, debate, or emotional attachment to the approach/acceptance/rejection! He views himself as a man in his own regard and does not need to be 'qualified' by anyone but by his own conduct and personal character!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
The best "DJ" is a "care less" DJ! He accepts the consequences and moves on without remorse, debate, or emotional attachment to the approach/acceptance/rejection! He views himself as a man in his own regard and does not need to be 'qualified' by anyone but by his own conduct and personal character!

aka, he just doesn't give a shyt what a chick thinks about him, or if she rejects him, etc. etc. I agree.
 
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Originally posted by jakethasnake
aka, he just doesn't give a shyt what a chick thinks about him, or if she rejects him, etc. etc. I agree.
OK Jake, your response is not as refined or eloquent as mine but it signifies the same meaning! Thank you for accentuating my point!:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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