Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
is it seriously that easy?Furyguy said:Tell her you saw her on TV.
Or anything else. It really doesn't matter.
Pretty much dude. As long as you're saying something that's not boring and not retarded, you'll probably do OK.is it seriously that easy?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah i've had IOI's before. The last monday she was with her classmates behind me in the library so I thought 'yehh boi this could work to your advantage...make some eye contact'. I did and she was responsive. I saw this thing on sosuave the other day which said if the both of you make eye contact three times she wants to speak to you. I knew this and thought 'lets take this further' so i turned in my swivel chair reading the daily paper pretending to talk to my mate whilst focusing my entire body her way. I knew she was digging this cos whenever I looked up her body was leaning towards me/facing me more and was giving me some nice IOI's like REALLY scruffing up with her hair and staring at my crotch and shoes. So after all signs point to yes I still manage to have fear about starting to chat with her.hondo928 said:Hi I'm X. I'm assuming she's already given you IOI's since you said you know she will like you once you talk to her If she's already attracted to you just about anything will work
LOL! I like that!Furyguy said:I still think the hardest part is starting the movement.
The trick I use:
Move your foot, or arm, or head, or anything, even a slight bit in her direction, and once you start moving it's easier to keep going than it is to turn back.