That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
is it seriously that easy?Furyguy said:Tell her you saw her on TV.
Or anything else. It really doesn't matter.
Pretty much dude. As long as you're saying something that's not boring and not retarded, you'll probably do OK.is it seriously that easy?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah i've had IOI's before. The last monday she was with her classmates behind me in the library so I thought 'yehh boi this could work to your advantage...make some eye contact'. I did and she was responsive. I saw this thing on sosuave the other day which said if the both of you make eye contact three times she wants to speak to you. I knew this and thought 'lets take this further' so i turned in my swivel chair reading the daily paper pretending to talk to my mate whilst focusing my entire body her way. I knew she was digging this cos whenever I looked up her body was leaning towards me/facing me more and was giving me some nice IOI's like REALLY scruffing up with her hair and staring at my crotch and shoes. So after all signs point to yes I still manage to have fear about starting to chat with her.hondo928 said:Hi I'm X. I'm assuming she's already given you IOI's since you said you know she will like you once you talk to her If she's already attracted to you just about anything will work
LOL! I like that!Furyguy said:I still think the hardest part is starting the movement.
The trick I use:
Move your foot, or arm, or head, or anything, even a slight bit in her direction, and once you start moving it's easier to keep going than it is to turn back.