"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Approaching sets during the day

Andre2807

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Hi guys. AB here.

I've been doing game for quite a while now, mostly dabbled in routine (technique-based) game, rather than natural. Ever since starting with natural daygame (principle-based)... I immediately started seeing a difference. In the past week I have cold approached about 12 women, 3 number closes, 4 leads, one kiss close and the rest have boyfriends/married/not interested.

Anyway, out of the approaches I did, I feel very comfortable and at ease when approaching one girl.

Do you guys have any advice on approaching stationary sets (most particularly, sets with 2 or more girls) during the daytime?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rainman4707

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...Well I would approach group asking for a female perspective ( a quick one as I have to get going..my body language will also tell them this) Tell them about my ex who got really jealous when we went out blah blah.
Get all of their opinions then maybe neg my target i.e (maybe you could be my new girlfriend, but you look like a loud snorer) This starts a fresh topic about my high standards. Whatever I want out of the approach I will go for.

Not much different to approaching one girl. Just engage the group in a conversation maybe add a little ****y + funny
 
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