"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Approaching sets during the day

Andre2807

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Hi guys. AB here.

I've been doing game for quite a while now, mostly dabbled in routine (technique-based) game, rather than natural. Ever since starting with natural daygame (principle-based)... I immediately started seeing a difference. In the past week I have cold approached about 12 women, 3 number closes, 4 leads, one kiss close and the rest have boyfriends/married/not interested.

Anyway, out of the approaches I did, I feel very comfortable and at ease when approaching one girl.

Do you guys have any advice on approaching stationary sets (most particularly, sets with 2 or more girls) during the daytime?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rainman4707

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...Well I would approach group asking for a female perspective ( a quick one as I have to get going..my body language will also tell them this) Tell them about my ex who got really jealous when we went out blah blah.
Get all of their opinions then maybe neg my target i.e (maybe you could be my new girlfriend, but you look like a loud snorer) This starts a fresh topic about my high standards. Whatever I want out of the approach I will go for.

Not much different to approaching one girl. Just engage the group in a conversation maybe add a little ****y + funny
 
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