"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Approaching Girls More Attractive Then You

mangotot

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Say I am a 6 in the looks department and I want to approach 8s. How do I get over in my mind that the girl to too attractive for me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
You don't have a problem talking to your guy friends, do you?

This is no different. Take the desired outcome out of it and proceed.
That's easy to say in theory but in the heat of the moment, it's not that simple. You just have to get used to talking to hot girls, talk to more of them and you'll train yourself to realise that they are normal people with the same sort of insecurities.
 

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mangotot said:
Say I am a 6 in the looks department and I want to approach 8s. How do I get over in my mind that the girl to too attractive for me?
the same way you learnt how to walk. practice. repeated approaches and subsequent failures until it is no longer a big deal to you. you could start gradually by approaching women in perfume departments for instance.
 

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As above posters said, exposure is the key
The more you talk to hot girls, the easier it becomes
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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