"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Approaching Girls More Attractive Then You

mangotot

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Say I am a 6 in the looks department and I want to approach 8s. How do I get over in my mind that the girl to too attractive for me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr Wright

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GettinMyMindRight said:
You don't have a problem talking to your guy friends, do you?

This is no different. Take the desired outcome out of it and proceed.
That's easy to say in theory but in the heat of the moment, it's not that simple. You just have to get used to talking to hot girls, talk to more of them and you'll train yourself to realise that they are normal people with the same sort of insecurities.
 

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mangotot said:
Say I am a 6 in the looks department and I want to approach 8s. How do I get over in my mind that the girl to too attractive for me?
the same way you learnt how to walk. practice. repeated approaches and subsequent failures until it is no longer a big deal to you. you could start gradually by approaching women in perfume departments for instance.
 

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As above posters said, exposure is the key
The more you talk to hot girls, the easier it becomes
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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