"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
approaching girl at gym
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dedication
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Thats easy, but if i where to act like a nice guy i wouldn't know how to get them. Somebody here hasn't done his homeworki am me said:
Don Shinra
Don Juan
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But if anyone wants to talk to a gym girl just say hi and think on ur toes with a bit of experience should do and if u don't have experience u r doing the same right thing because u need EXPERIENCE.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Plop your dong on the table and ask her if she wants that with her eggs.i am me said:
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
Give us some specifics...has she flirted with you? Has she noticed you? If so what happened? Did she smile at you or give you a blank stare?i am me said:
Assuming you don't look like a complete bum at the gym (always groom yourself, just in case you see a fine woman somewhere), see what her body language is like. If she is open to talking (isn't too busy, doesn't have a mean expression on her face, etc), walk up and say "Hello" and make small talk...like "How do you like working here?" or "What do you do when you're not at the gym?" ("How" and "Why" questions are key. Questions that lead to one word answers will kill the convo.) That can easily transition into what she does for fun. Then at the end of your conversation (which shouldn't last more than 3 - 4 minutes), tell her that she seems like a cool person and that you wouldn't mind hanging out with her one day. If she responds positively, leave her your number...hopefully you have a business card of some sort. (or at least exchange numbers). Then say, "It was nice meeting you...talk to you soon." And get back to your workout.
Hopefully you know what to do from here. Piece of cake. Good luck.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
TheRealSupreme
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I knew this was bullshyt. And ain't nuthin bytch like in getting upset over some sympin post like this. Especially from someone with 900 plus posts.i am me said:
It's bytch4ssness to even make a post like this just for kicks. Why waste someones time just cause you have no respect for your own?