"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
approaching girl at gym
- Thread starter i am me
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dedication
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Thats easy, but if i where to act like a nice guy i wouldn't know how to get them. Somebody here hasn't done his homeworki am me said:
Don Shinra
Don Juan
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
But if anyone wants to talk to a gym girl just say hi and think on ur toes with a bit of experience should do and if u don't have experience u r doing the same right thing because u need EXPERIENCE.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Plop your dong on the table and ask her if she wants that with her eggs.i am me said:
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
Give us some specifics...has she flirted with you? Has she noticed you? If so what happened? Did she smile at you or give you a blank stare?i am me said:
Assuming you don't look like a complete bum at the gym (always groom yourself, just in case you see a fine woman somewhere), see what her body language is like. If she is open to talking (isn't too busy, doesn't have a mean expression on her face, etc), walk up and say "Hello" and make small talk...like "How do you like working here?" or "What do you do when you're not at the gym?" ("How" and "Why" questions are key. Questions that lead to one word answers will kill the convo.) That can easily transition into what she does for fun. Then at the end of your conversation (which shouldn't last more than 3 - 4 minutes), tell her that she seems like a cool person and that you wouldn't mind hanging out with her one day. If she responds positively, leave her your number...hopefully you have a business card of some sort. (or at least exchange numbers). Then say, "It was nice meeting you...talk to you soon." And get back to your workout.
Hopefully you know what to do from here. Piece of cake. Good luck.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TheRealSupreme
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I knew this was bullshyt. And ain't nuthin bytch like in getting upset over some sympin post like this. Especially from someone with 900 plus posts.i am me said:
It's bytch4ssness to even make a post like this just for kicks. Why waste someones time just cause you have no respect for your own?