"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GiGi

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Hi dudes,

Im 19 & @ university.
In my class, there are 2sisters who are always together..
I'd like to approach them but i dunno how to do ...
I have spoken 2 times with one of them:
1-me: Hey , what did the prof say?
her: blablabla
me: thanks

2-me: do u have ur diary? i forgot a homework
her: nono ......
me: ok thanks

:'( :'( :'( its very small , please help me, gimme examples :(

I precise that I have read da major party of da forum, but i have no idea, that's why im wondering your help :x
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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All You:

Hey, what's your name? I'm Gigi.
Where are you from?
What are you studying?
Do you like it? Really? What do you like about it?
What are you going to do with your degree when you get out?
How do you think that will make you feel?
Will it be satisfying? Is that what you've always wanted? Will it make you happy?

Do you know this town well? I don't either. But I want to go have some fun and explore. Let's go look for a good place to have lunch.

Come on....
 

Dukester

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yep, exactly what hammer said.
it's not that fvcking hard to talk about something w/ a classmate. talk about the class or prof. first, then slowly fade into something else, and then go 4 a # close
 

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sisters can be a bit tougher in a way, but there are some positives. If these sisters are close in age, you flirting with one will drive the other one crazy for you.
 

GiGi

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LOL its not the problem

The problem is to flirt :) and approach them
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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