"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GiGi

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Hi dudes,

Im 19 & @ university.
In my class, there are 2sisters who are always together..
I'd like to approach them but i dunno how to do ...
I have spoken 2 times with one of them:
1-me: Hey , what did the prof say?
her: blablabla
me: thanks

2-me: do u have ur diary? i forgot a homework
her: nono ......
me: ok thanks

:'( :'( :'( its very small , please help me, gimme examples :(

I precise that I have read da major party of da forum, but i have no idea, that's why im wondering your help :x
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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All You:

Hey, what's your name? I'm Gigi.
Where are you from?
What are you studying?
Do you like it? Really? What do you like about it?
What are you going to do with your degree when you get out?
How do you think that will make you feel?
Will it be satisfying? Is that what you've always wanted? Will it make you happy?

Do you know this town well? I don't either. But I want to go have some fun and explore. Let's go look for a good place to have lunch.

Come on....
 

Dukester

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yep, exactly what hammer said.
it's not that fvcking hard to talk about something w/ a classmate. talk about the class or prof. first, then slowly fade into something else, and then go 4 a # close
 

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sisters can be a bit tougher in a way, but there are some positives. If these sisters are close in age, you flirting with one will drive the other one crazy for you.
 

GiGi

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LOL its not the problem

The problem is to flirt :) and approach them
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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