"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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IamtheAlphamale

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They may be hot but I'll tell you one thing!! Most of them are just annoying. Keep in mind something you don't like when you walk up and start talking to them. I remember the hottest chick I ever got when I walked upto her I was like see shes not perfect, I see she has a zit, it works. Its a good way to take them off the pedistal or whatever. When you approach take them down and its a lot easier. Your welcome. And to whoever **** talks me for no reason about this post **** you in advance! :0 HAHA!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Or, alternatively, you could be confident in yourself and not think of her as better than you. But whatever works for you, brah ;)
 
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My favorite line
You-"How much does a polar bear way in the summer?"
Her-"Umm I dont no"
You-"Enough to break the ice, hi my name is..."
They no that you want to talk to them so dont take the first line seriously and make it obvious that you dont. If they make a remark about what you said counter with "I just saw you and you looked like you would be fun to meet"
 

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CalmCoolAndConfident said:
My favorite line
You-"How much does a polar bear way in the summer?"
Her-"Umm I dont no"
You-"Enough to break the ice, hi my name is..."
They no that you want to talk to them so dont take the first line seriously and make it obvious that you dont. If they make a remark about what you said counter with "I just saw you and you looked like you would be fun to meet"

LOL

What's your success rate with that?
 

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It's a gud'n.

Try and use a joke or something instead of something that points directly at "chatting her up".

You can talk to women without trying to get them into bed so make it look that way.

I've always had the most success when actually not obviously going after them by using "chat up lines" and "smooth talk". I really believe all that's Hollywood myth.

I'll give you a real life scenario here of why what I am saying works: Gays.

How many gays do you see hanging with hot girls getting along perfectly fine? TONS. Most gay fellas I know only hang out with girls because they are uncomfortable around men. Women can trust them because they are not always looking out to see if they are trying to get them addicted and into bed with them.

I'm always now trying to adapt my approach to be more down to Earth, more "friendly" instead of being the mad man after sex all the time.

What do you think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CalmCoolAndConfident said:
My favorite line
You-"How much does a polar bear way in the summer?"
Her-"Umm I dont no"
You-"Enough to break the ice, hi my name is..."
They no that you want to talk to them so dont take the first line seriously and make it obvious that you dont. If they make a remark about what you said counter with "I just saw you and you looked like you would be fun to meet"
I can't even count on my fingers how many times I've heard this. An original personality is something that not only females, but every person loves :)
 

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TheNastyPlayer said:
It's a gud'n.

Try and use a joke or something instead of something that points directly at "chatting her up".

You can talk to women without trying to get them into bed so make it look that way.

I've always had the most success when actually not obviously going after them by using "chat up lines" and "smooth talk". I really believe all that's Hollywood myth.
Examples of the two? I kno this but i've always had trouble differentiating the two?
 

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TheNastyPlayer said:
It's a gud'n.

Try and use a joke or something instead of something that points directly at "chatting her up".

You can talk to women without trying to get them into bed so make it look that way.

I've always had the most success when actually not obviously going after them by using "chat up lines" and "smooth talk". I really believe all that's Hollywood myth.

I'll give you a real life scenario here of why what I am saying works: Gays.

How many gays do you see hanging with hot girls getting along perfectly fine? TONS. Most gay fellas I know only hang out with girls because they are uncomfortable around men. Women can trust them because they are not always looking out to see if they are trying to get them addicted and into bed with them.

I'm always now trying to adapt my approach to be more down to Earth, more "friendly" instead of being the mad man after sex all the time.

What do you think?
That's some good advice, when I approach I just try to keep em laughing. I think I invented C&F way before david d. My style is more like ****y funny and stupid. I ask dumb question or say dumb things like, "I heard cell phones give you cancer". Yep then you just move on, nothing wrong with messing with people.
 
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