"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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IamtheAlphamale

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They may be hot but I'll tell you one thing!! Most of them are just annoying. Keep in mind something you don't like when you walk up and start talking to them. I remember the hottest chick I ever got when I walked upto her I was like see shes not perfect, I see she has a zit, it works. Its a good way to take them off the pedistal or whatever. When you approach take them down and its a lot easier. Your welcome. And to whoever **** talks me for no reason about this post **** you in advance! :0 HAHA!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Serialized3

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Or, alternatively, you could be confident in yourself and not think of her as better than you. But whatever works for you, brah ;)
 
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My favorite line
You-"How much does a polar bear way in the summer?"
Her-"Umm I dont no"
You-"Enough to break the ice, hi my name is..."
They no that you want to talk to them so dont take the first line seriously and make it obvious that you dont. If they make a remark about what you said counter with "I just saw you and you looked like you would be fun to meet"
 

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CalmCoolAndConfident said:
My favorite line
You-"How much does a polar bear way in the summer?"
Her-"Umm I dont no"
You-"Enough to break the ice, hi my name is..."
They no that you want to talk to them so dont take the first line seriously and make it obvious that you dont. If they make a remark about what you said counter with "I just saw you and you looked like you would be fun to meet"

LOL

What's your success rate with that?
 

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It's a gud'n.

Try and use a joke or something instead of something that points directly at "chatting her up".

You can talk to women without trying to get them into bed so make it look that way.

I've always had the most success when actually not obviously going after them by using "chat up lines" and "smooth talk". I really believe all that's Hollywood myth.

I'll give you a real life scenario here of why what I am saying works: Gays.

How many gays do you see hanging with hot girls getting along perfectly fine? TONS. Most gay fellas I know only hang out with girls because they are uncomfortable around men. Women can trust them because they are not always looking out to see if they are trying to get them addicted and into bed with them.

I'm always now trying to adapt my approach to be more down to Earth, more "friendly" instead of being the mad man after sex all the time.

What do you think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CalmCoolAndConfident said:
My favorite line
You-"How much does a polar bear way in the summer?"
Her-"Umm I dont no"
You-"Enough to break the ice, hi my name is..."
They no that you want to talk to them so dont take the first line seriously and make it obvious that you dont. If they make a remark about what you said counter with "I just saw you and you looked like you would be fun to meet"
I can't even count on my fingers how many times I've heard this. An original personality is something that not only females, but every person loves :)
 

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TheNastyPlayer said:
It's a gud'n.

Try and use a joke or something instead of something that points directly at "chatting her up".

You can talk to women without trying to get them into bed so make it look that way.

I've always had the most success when actually not obviously going after them by using "chat up lines" and "smooth talk". I really believe all that's Hollywood myth.
Examples of the two? I kno this but i've always had trouble differentiating the two?
 

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TheNastyPlayer said:
It's a gud'n.

Try and use a joke or something instead of something that points directly at "chatting her up".

You can talk to women without trying to get them into bed so make it look that way.

I've always had the most success when actually not obviously going after them by using "chat up lines" and "smooth talk". I really believe all that's Hollywood myth.

I'll give you a real life scenario here of why what I am saying works: Gays.

How many gays do you see hanging with hot girls getting along perfectly fine? TONS. Most gay fellas I know only hang out with girls because they are uncomfortable around men. Women can trust them because they are not always looking out to see if they are trying to get them addicted and into bed with them.

I'm always now trying to adapt my approach to be more down to Earth, more "friendly" instead of being the mad man after sex all the time.

What do you think?
That's some good advice, when I approach I just try to keep em laughing. I think I invented C&F way before david d. My style is more like ****y funny and stupid. I ask dumb question or say dumb things like, "I heard cell phones give you cancer". Yep then you just move on, nothing wrong with messing with people.
 
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