"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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They may be hot but I'll tell you one thing!! Most of them are just annoying. Keep in mind something you don't like when you walk up and start talking to them. I remember the hottest chick I ever got when I walked upto her I was like see shes not perfect, I see she has a zit, it works. Its a good way to take them off the pedistal or whatever. When you approach take them down and its a lot easier. Your welcome. And to whoever **** talks me for no reason about this post **** you in advance! :0 HAHA!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Or, alternatively, you could be confident in yourself and not think of her as better than you. But whatever works for you, brah ;)
 
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My favorite line
You-"How much does a polar bear way in the summer?"
Her-"Umm I dont no"
You-"Enough to break the ice, hi my name is..."
They no that you want to talk to them so dont take the first line seriously and make it obvious that you dont. If they make a remark about what you said counter with "I just saw you and you looked like you would be fun to meet"
 

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CalmCoolAndConfident said:
My favorite line
You-"How much does a polar bear way in the summer?"
Her-"Umm I dont no"
You-"Enough to break the ice, hi my name is..."
They no that you want to talk to them so dont take the first line seriously and make it obvious that you dont. If they make a remark about what you said counter with "I just saw you and you looked like you would be fun to meet"

LOL

What's your success rate with that?
 

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It's a gud'n.

Try and use a joke or something instead of something that points directly at "chatting her up".

You can talk to women without trying to get them into bed so make it look that way.

I've always had the most success when actually not obviously going after them by using "chat up lines" and "smooth talk". I really believe all that's Hollywood myth.

I'll give you a real life scenario here of why what I am saying works: Gays.

How many gays do you see hanging with hot girls getting along perfectly fine? TONS. Most gay fellas I know only hang out with girls because they are uncomfortable around men. Women can trust them because they are not always looking out to see if they are trying to get them addicted and into bed with them.

I'm always now trying to adapt my approach to be more down to Earth, more "friendly" instead of being the mad man after sex all the time.

What do you think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CalmCoolAndConfident said:
My favorite line
You-"How much does a polar bear way in the summer?"
Her-"Umm I dont no"
You-"Enough to break the ice, hi my name is..."
They no that you want to talk to them so dont take the first line seriously and make it obvious that you dont. If they make a remark about what you said counter with "I just saw you and you looked like you would be fun to meet"
I can't even count on my fingers how many times I've heard this. An original personality is something that not only females, but every person loves :)
 

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TheNastyPlayer said:
It's a gud'n.

Try and use a joke or something instead of something that points directly at "chatting her up".

You can talk to women without trying to get them into bed so make it look that way.

I've always had the most success when actually not obviously going after them by using "chat up lines" and "smooth talk". I really believe all that's Hollywood myth.
Examples of the two? I kno this but i've always had trouble differentiating the two?
 

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TheNastyPlayer said:
It's a gud'n.

Try and use a joke or something instead of something that points directly at "chatting her up".

You can talk to women without trying to get them into bed so make it look that way.

I've always had the most success when actually not obviously going after them by using "chat up lines" and "smooth talk". I really believe all that's Hollywood myth.

I'll give you a real life scenario here of why what I am saying works: Gays.

How many gays do you see hanging with hot girls getting along perfectly fine? TONS. Most gay fellas I know only hang out with girls because they are uncomfortable around men. Women can trust them because they are not always looking out to see if they are trying to get them addicted and into bed with them.

I'm always now trying to adapt my approach to be more down to Earth, more "friendly" instead of being the mad man after sex all the time.

What do you think?
That's some good advice, when I approach I just try to keep em laughing. I think I invented C&F way before david d. My style is more like ****y funny and stupid. I ask dumb question or say dumb things like, "I heard cell phones give you cancer". Yep then you just move on, nothing wrong with messing with people.
 
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