“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Approaching at the beach

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Today I was at the beach on a particularly nice day. The beach was more packed than I think I've ever seen it. I couldn't look in any direction without seeing a hottie. I was sitting there with friends, looking at the girls. They are usually in groups. Hot girls never go to the beach alone. They are either with other cute girlfriends, or in a mixed guy/girl set. They are usually either laying down tanning or just talking with each other.

I was trying to come up with ways I could approach them but my mind was going blank. It's not like a bar where you could sit at a barstool and spit your game to a girl that walks up and orders a drink, or ask a girl to dance at the club. But I don't know what the hell to do at the beach.

The beach could probably be the best place to game if you are good at it. High concentration of beautiful young women, and you already know what they'd look like naked, it's all out in the open save for a skimpy piece of cloth required by law.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Agreed. I live in FL. and it's wonderful ;)

Me and my bro (twin) have this awesome way of attracting girls at the beach.

Goes like this:

First we throw around some football near them.
Then My bro starts doing back flips.

They ALWAYS flock over to watch.

Some want to have a competition to see who has the best backflip. I'm usually just sitting there with a camera acting like I'm filming his progress and flirting with all the HBs.
 

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Themanthatcan said:
Agreed. I live in FL. and it's wonderful ;)

Me and my bro (twin) have this awesome way of attracting girls at the beach.

Goes like this:

First we throw around some football near them.
Then My bro starts doing back flips.

They ALWAYS flock over to watch.

Some want to have a competition to see who has the best backflip. I'm usually just sitting there with a camera acting like I'm filming his progress and flirting with all the HBs.
Amateur hour.

Seriously, I'm betting I'm a lot younger than you and am way better at this than you are.

Forget about cheesy gimmicks like throwing balls near them and showing off with backflips.

Why don't you just approach them like normal?
 

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I'm no acrobat so scratch that one. I'm about to head back to the beach in a couple hours.
 

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Lust said:
Amateur hour.

Seriously, I'm betting I'm a lot younger than you and am way better at this than you are.

Forget about cheesy gimmicks like throwing balls near them and showing off with backflips.

Why don't you just approach them like normal?
I can approach chicks at the beach and not even think twice. But maybe you don't understand. What I meant was, I go to the beach, throw around some football (not to attract women, but to go have fun) and let my bro practice his backflips.

It just so happens that women decide to jump in on the fun.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Themanthatcan said:
Agreed. I live in FL. and it's wonderful ;)

Me and my bro (twin) have this awesome way of attracting girls at the beach.

Goes like this:

First we throw around some football near them.
Then My bro starts doing back flips.

They ALWAYS flock over to watch.

Some want to have a competition to see who has the best backflip. I'm usually just sitting there with a camera acting like I'm filming his progress and flirting with all the HBs.
I breathe fire. I learned the trick from a friend. Much easier than it looks. Imagine, my fire breathing next to your backflipping :woo: . We would clean up in the hottie department. If we were all dj's we would have a world much like the circus :rock:
 

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The beach is awkward because you have to totally invade their space to approach.

Basically, asking for something like the time, or asking if they noticed if some friends of yours were sitting in close proximity.

Ask for directions to another beach. Any innocent question can open the door. Then start running game. Get em to go swim. Neg em on their tan line, or whatever your approach
 
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