"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Approaching at the beach

speakeasy

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Today I was at the beach on a particularly nice day. The beach was more packed than I think I've ever seen it. I couldn't look in any direction without seeing a hottie. I was sitting there with friends, looking at the girls. They are usually in groups. Hot girls never go to the beach alone. They are either with other cute girlfriends, or in a mixed guy/girl set. They are usually either laying down tanning or just talking with each other.

I was trying to come up with ways I could approach them but my mind was going blank. It's not like a bar where you could sit at a barstool and spit your game to a girl that walks up and orders a drink, or ask a girl to dance at the club. But I don't know what the hell to do at the beach.

The beach could probably be the best place to game if you are good at it. High concentration of beautiful young women, and you already know what they'd look like naked, it's all out in the open save for a skimpy piece of cloth required by law.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Themanthatcan

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Agreed. I live in FL. and it's wonderful ;)

Me and my bro (twin) have this awesome way of attracting girls at the beach.

Goes like this:

First we throw around some football near them.
Then My bro starts doing back flips.

They ALWAYS flock over to watch.

Some want to have a competition to see who has the best backflip. I'm usually just sitting there with a camera acting like I'm filming his progress and flirting with all the HBs.
 

Lust

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Themanthatcan said:
Agreed. I live in FL. and it's wonderful ;)

Me and my bro (twin) have this awesome way of attracting girls at the beach.

Goes like this:

First we throw around some football near them.
Then My bro starts doing back flips.

They ALWAYS flock over to watch.

Some want to have a competition to see who has the best backflip. I'm usually just sitting there with a camera acting like I'm filming his progress and flirting with all the HBs.
Amateur hour.

Seriously, I'm betting I'm a lot younger than you and am way better at this than you are.

Forget about cheesy gimmicks like throwing balls near them and showing off with backflips.

Why don't you just approach them like normal?
 

speakeasy

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I'm no acrobat so scratch that one. I'm about to head back to the beach in a couple hours.
 

Themanthatcan

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Lust said:
Amateur hour.

Seriously, I'm betting I'm a lot younger than you and am way better at this than you are.

Forget about cheesy gimmicks like throwing balls near them and showing off with backflips.

Why don't you just approach them like normal?
I can approach chicks at the beach and not even think twice. But maybe you don't understand. What I meant was, I go to the beach, throw around some football (not to attract women, but to go have fun) and let my bro practice his backflips.

It just so happens that women decide to jump in on the fun.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bigappledj

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Themanthatcan said:
Agreed. I live in FL. and it's wonderful ;)

Me and my bro (twin) have this awesome way of attracting girls at the beach.

Goes like this:

First we throw around some football near them.
Then My bro starts doing back flips.

They ALWAYS flock over to watch.

Some want to have a competition to see who has the best backflip. I'm usually just sitting there with a camera acting like I'm filming his progress and flirting with all the HBs.
I breathe fire. I learned the trick from a friend. Much easier than it looks. Imagine, my fire breathing next to your backflipping :woo: . We would clean up in the hottie department. If we were all dj's we would have a world much like the circus :rock:
 

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The beach is awkward because you have to totally invade their space to approach.

Basically, asking for something like the time, or asking if they noticed if some friends of yours were sitting in close proximity.

Ask for directions to another beach. Any innocent question can open the door. Then start running game. Get em to go swim. Neg em on their tan line, or whatever your approach
 
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