"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Approaching at the beach

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Today I was at the beach on a particularly nice day. The beach was more packed than I think I've ever seen it. I couldn't look in any direction without seeing a hottie. I was sitting there with friends, looking at the girls. They are usually in groups. Hot girls never go to the beach alone. They are either with other cute girlfriends, or in a mixed guy/girl set. They are usually either laying down tanning or just talking with each other.

I was trying to come up with ways I could approach them but my mind was going blank. It's not like a bar where you could sit at a barstool and spit your game to a girl that walks up and orders a drink, or ask a girl to dance at the club. But I don't know what the hell to do at the beach.

The beach could probably be the best place to game if you are good at it. High concentration of beautiful young women, and you already know what they'd look like naked, it's all out in the open save for a skimpy piece of cloth required by law.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Agreed. I live in FL. and it's wonderful ;)

Me and my bro (twin) have this awesome way of attracting girls at the beach.

Goes like this:

First we throw around some football near them.
Then My bro starts doing back flips.

They ALWAYS flock over to watch.

Some want to have a competition to see who has the best backflip. I'm usually just sitting there with a camera acting like I'm filming his progress and flirting with all the HBs.
 

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Themanthatcan said:
Agreed. I live in FL. and it's wonderful ;)

Me and my bro (twin) have this awesome way of attracting girls at the beach.

Goes like this:

First we throw around some football near them.
Then My bro starts doing back flips.

They ALWAYS flock over to watch.

Some want to have a competition to see who has the best backflip. I'm usually just sitting there with a camera acting like I'm filming his progress and flirting with all the HBs.
Amateur hour.

Seriously, I'm betting I'm a lot younger than you and am way better at this than you are.

Forget about cheesy gimmicks like throwing balls near them and showing off with backflips.

Why don't you just approach them like normal?
 

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I'm no acrobat so scratch that one. I'm about to head back to the beach in a couple hours.
 

Themanthatcan

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Lust said:
Amateur hour.

Seriously, I'm betting I'm a lot younger than you and am way better at this than you are.

Forget about cheesy gimmicks like throwing balls near them and showing off with backflips.

Why don't you just approach them like normal?
I can approach chicks at the beach and not even think twice. But maybe you don't understand. What I meant was, I go to the beach, throw around some football (not to attract women, but to go have fun) and let my bro practice his backflips.

It just so happens that women decide to jump in on the fun.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Themanthatcan said:
Agreed. I live in FL. and it's wonderful ;)

Me and my bro (twin) have this awesome way of attracting girls at the beach.

Goes like this:

First we throw around some football near them.
Then My bro starts doing back flips.

They ALWAYS flock over to watch.

Some want to have a competition to see who has the best backflip. I'm usually just sitting there with a camera acting like I'm filming his progress and flirting with all the HBs.
I breathe fire. I learned the trick from a friend. Much easier than it looks. Imagine, my fire breathing next to your backflipping :woo: . We would clean up in the hottie department. If we were all dj's we would have a world much like the circus :rock:
 

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The beach is awkward because you have to totally invade their space to approach.

Basically, asking for something like the time, or asking if they noticed if some friends of yours were sitting in close proximity.

Ask for directions to another beach. Any innocent question can open the door. Then start running game. Get em to go swim. Neg em on their tan line, or whatever your approach
 
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