"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Approaching and sexual assault

Akshay92

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so I just recently posted about how I'm gonna break up with my gf of 6 1/2 years.... now I'm thinking okay so I wanna get laid I need to approach girls! The thing is every where I read and whenever I watch the news all I see is men getting blamed for sexual assault for touching a women's breast by accident or her back or her knee...

So in this day and age how is a 25 year old supposed to approach women without a feminist literally ruining his life?

Btw I'm super new to approaching and actually I haven't been with a different girl other then my soon to be ex. I wanna be like Barney Stinson from how I met your mother but I mean it seems like he would be locked up for the things he does in this modern age lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Murk

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Well approaching girls doesn't mean grabbing them and sexually assaulting them so you will be fine. You are going to be speaking with women in a lighthearted, fun way. You gauge their interest, how they reciprocate your flirting/approach and if it's positive, depending on where you've met, ask for a number, maybe escalate on the spot with touching eventually kissing her. Maybe it's just flirt, laugh, get the number, arrange a date.

The whole point is you are doing these things with women who are interested. If they're not interested you move on = no sex charge.
 

icantgetlaid

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If you are confusing approach with sexual assault you are doing something wrong.

If you approach a girl and she's receptive, you'll know it .. if she's not receptive .. don't push the issue and move on.
 

Akshay92

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I guess I'm just paranoid cause I watch a lot of Mgtow stuff and I see dudes getting screamed at for approaching women and just talking to them. But ight I guess I'll go for it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Diver

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I watch a lot of Mgtow stuff
Stop watching MGTOW, they are a losers and women hater , who took the easy way, and run away from the "battlefield".(Mostly due to a trauma involved women they trusted in the past), you have nothing to learn from them.
 
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