"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I see females in class that I want to approach, but since class is a bad time for an approach since I have to copy down the material I want to approach after class.

The problem is that I feel stalkerish if I know that I will have to follow her and don't approach as a result. Any advice?

I think that I should come to class later and wait and see where she sits down and go sit next to her and make an approach which I think is the better thing to do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah....if you sit near her, it shouldn't be too hard.

Or, get there early and talk to her before class.
 
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Dude, say, "Hello". lol When you give a sh1t, they give a sh1t. Just say something. I always get people excited to talk to me because I talk about them. Once they realize I have no other intentions other than shooting the sh1t, they want to know more about me. I could care less if they like me or not because I'm not bringing anything out of it. I already know I'm wonderful, and I'm doing them a favor by letting them talk to me. You is da man. Stop making them so much better than you, dude. Stop the fear!
 
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Demon Wolf said:
I see females in class that I want to approach, but since class is a bad time for an approach since I have to copy down the material I want to approach after class.

The problem is that I feel stalkerish if I know that I will have to follow her and don't approach as a result. Any advice?

I think that I should come to class later and wait and see where she sits down and go sit next to her and make an approach which I think is the better thing to do.
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I agree with what the other posters said. U should go try to sit next to her. If she doesn't seem that responsive(Girls tend to be shy now and then)...keep on talking...then she'll realize that ur just a friendly guy and open up. Also, if its after class..when she's on her way out, say "Stop for a second" with a smile. She'll be curious. I S HIT YOU NOT!!!! Then you can start talking and walking with her. :) Its worth a try.

Also you can be afraid, but u'll feel much better after u do it. By no means, def don't feel stalkerish if ur about to approach her. Good luck Demon Wolf.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonJoseCantosie said:
I agree with what the other posters said. U should go try to sit next to her. If she doesn't seem that responsive(Girls tend to be shy now and then)...keep on talking...then she'll realize that ur just a friendly guy and open up. Also, if its after class..when she's on her way out, say "Stop for a second" with a smile. She'll be curious. I S HIT YOU NOT!!!! Then you can start talking and walking with her. :) Its worth a try.

Also you can be afraid, but u'll feel much better after u do it. By no means, def don't feel stalkerish if ur about to approach her. Good luck Demon Wolf.
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Haha I definitely gotta try that one :)
 
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Believe me man...u'll be shocked at how well it'll work ;-)
 
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I sat down next to a girl and talked to her for a few minutes. I made a few jokes about the AC being too cold and how messed up the auditorium was and she liked it. When I said goodbye I got sustained direct eye cotnact from her so I think I did good.
 
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yeah, not a bad start. Now just work on your grammar ;)

lol but seriously, make sure you follow up with her. Some C&F, make her laugh some more, initiate kino, and you're good to go.
 
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Demon Wolf said:
I sat down next to a girl and talked to her for a few minutes. I made a few jokes about the AC being too cold and how messed up the auditorium was and she liked it. When I said goodbye I got sustained direct eye cotnact from her so I think I did good.
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Three Words: You Did right. :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm like havin the same problem, just theres some chick thats hot, no one sits with her and hasn't all semester, and same with me. Do you guys think she'll thinks it weird if I sit by her one day and start talkin to her? Because I haven't yet, and it's not because I was scared too, it was just that I had a gf so I never thought much of it.
 
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stoner1129 said:
I'm like havin the same problem, just theres some chick thats hot, no one sits with her and hasn't all semester, and same with me. Do you guys think she'll thinks it weird if I sit by her one day and start talkin to her? Because I haven't yet, and it's not because I was scared too, it was just that I had a gf so I never thought much of it.
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might be abit creepy.. why don't you ask her something after class then sit by her after she knows who you are.
 
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