"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Approaching a pool full of girls?

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Hey. I'm not too active here but usually come and look around, I get the newsletter and have read the bible. I just moved down to college, and live in a condominuim where there is always a pool full of girls. Anybody can't get in there, you have to live here to have access to the pool. Everytime I leave there is always about 5-10 girls in the pool; no guys. What would be a good approach, since I can't really talk to all of them at once? Would, "Hey, how are you doing, I'm Mooney, what's your name." be alright?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Show them your Mooney.

If that doesn't work, here's what I* would do. Instead of approaching all 5, I would approach one. Find one girl that strikes your fancy. I'm assuming all these chicks are friends. Then just go and jump in and start talking to her. Show a genuine interest in what she says, even if she's a complete ditz. Before long, she will introduce you to all her chick friends, saving you the hassle of doing it yourself.





*I'm not a pro at any of this stuff so take it with a grain of salt.
 
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I'd point at one and yell "She's peeing in the pool!!". If they laugh, you're in.

Ask them to judge your speedo's. Anything! it's getting them talking.
 
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I had a situation similar to this when I was out working a while back delievering some furniture. There were three good looking girls in the pool at these apts. Of course still being new to this job I had to show up the other guys that wouldn't approach them. I merely walked up, sweaty and all, and asked if they knew where a coke machine was. They told me. I responded telling them if I wasn't on the clock I might be inclined to join them in the pool. I talked to them for about 5 minutes and we talked about meeting up at the club later that night and I'd bring a friend who just recently became single.

Sucky thing was, I couldn't get my friend to go because he's so stuck on his ex. That's why I won't use wingmen.
 
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"Room for one more?"

Simple as that. Or cannonball and splash them or somethin.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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