"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Approaching a pool full of girls?

xenten

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Hey. I'm not too active here but usually come and look around, I get the newsletter and have read the bible. I just moved down to college, and live in a condominuim where there is always a pool full of girls. Anybody can't get in there, you have to live here to have access to the pool. Everytime I leave there is always about 5-10 girls in the pool; no guys. What would be a good approach, since I can't really talk to all of them at once? Would, "Hey, how are you doing, I'm Mooney, what's your name." be alright?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Soldier711

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Show them your Mooney.

If that doesn't work, here's what I* would do. Instead of approaching all 5, I would approach one. Find one girl that strikes your fancy. I'm assuming all these chicks are friends. Then just go and jump in and start talking to her. Show a genuine interest in what she says, even if she's a complete ditz. Before long, she will introduce you to all her chick friends, saving you the hassle of doing it yourself.





*I'm not a pro at any of this stuff so take it with a grain of salt.
 

WesCottII

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I'd point at one and yell "She's peeing in the pool!!". If they laugh, you're in.

Ask them to judge your speedo's. Anything! it's getting them talking.
 

mattb717

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I had a situation similar to this when I was out working a while back delievering some furniture. There were three good looking girls in the pool at these apts. Of course still being new to this job I had to show up the other guys that wouldn't approach them. I merely walked up, sweaty and all, and asked if they knew where a coke machine was. They told me. I responded telling them if I wasn't on the clock I might be inclined to join them in the pool. I talked to them for about 5 minutes and we talked about meeting up at the club later that night and I'd bring a friend who just recently became single.

Sucky thing was, I couldn't get my friend to go because he's so stuck on his ex. That's why I won't use wingmen.
 

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"Room for one more?"

Simple as that. Or cannonball and splash them or somethin.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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