Hey. I'm not too active here but usually come and look around, I get the newsletter and have read the bible. I just moved down to college, and live in a condominuim where there is always a pool full of girls. Anybody can't get in there, you have to live here to have access to the pool. Everytime I leave there is always about 5-10 girls in the pool; no guys. What would be a good approach, since I can't really talk to all of them at once? Would, "Hey, how are you doing, I'm Mooney, what's your name." be alright?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Approaching a pool full of girls?
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