"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Approached HB 9 through bet.

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my friend bet me 55$ I couldn't get my picture taken with the "seattles' best" girl in the coffee shop.

She was HB 9. None of them know im in the game.

There were only 4 of us guys. :)

So I go inside the cafe and it went like this:

ME: Hi! :)

HB: Hello! (acting nice because it's her job maybe, i cant really tell)

ME: My friends just dared me to have my picture taken with you, do you mind?

HB: Sure no problem, i'll be out in a sec

*few seconds later*

HB: Okay let's go..

Me: *tries to put my hand on her shoulders for the picture, but she brushes me off*

*on the way out*

Me: My name is M by the way.

Her: I'm claire

*shakes hands*

*outside now*

*We get out picture taken*

I won the bet, so i practically forgot to get her #, she just said, "There" then smiled :) and went back to work.

I failed to get her #, I actually never asked. But I never approached a girl of this level before.

It felt great! I swear it could be one of the best feeling in the world! :)

And I admit, approaching her, i was full of fear. (you know it) I'm going to start approaching 1 girl a day starting from now. :)

So if u have never approached a girl, the time is now. And if you are full of fear, dont wait for a bet to motivate you. Do it for yourself. I should have done this a long time ago.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thats a good way to get someone who is afraid to approach, like me. If someone bet me 50 bucks and I actually thought they would give it to me, I'd approach any chick maybe i wouldnt get a picture with her but i would approach.
 

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lol

I wish there was a non-approaching tax, that you had to pay 500 bux a year if you didnt get laid 5 times during a year, lets get congress to pass the No lay Bill.

Finally all those we vote into power actually using it for some good. :)
 

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The funny thing is, the HB 9 was just standing there.

As I stood up, and as I walked to her, I had no idea what to say.

Then there it is. Like natural instinct. You may say the wrong things. you may fail.

But failing is most definately better than not trying at all.

And believe me, it is. Even if she fully rejected me, which she didn't, approaching & trying is much better than thinking what could have been and kicking yourself afterwards.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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And let me be honest, if they guy told me, "i'm only kidding about the 55$.."

i'll be like, "aight, thanks for motivating me to approach that girl, i needed that experience anyway." :D
 

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Amen. I read somewhere about this guy who gave his friend 20$ and said he could keep it if he didnt approach 5 chicks. Ill be honest and say that this is the kind of motivation I need.
 

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for $55 ill number close her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Damian

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Awesome field report...i totally agree...

All of you beginners out there should just start approaching and get rid of the nagging fear. You'll be a better person for it!

-Damian
 
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