"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Approached HB 9 through bet.

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my friend bet me 55$ I couldn't get my picture taken with the "seattles' best" girl in the coffee shop.

She was HB 9. None of them know im in the game.

There were only 4 of us guys. :)

So I go inside the cafe and it went like this:

ME: Hi! :)

HB: Hello! (acting nice because it's her job maybe, i cant really tell)

ME: My friends just dared me to have my picture taken with you, do you mind?

HB: Sure no problem, i'll be out in a sec

*few seconds later*

HB: Okay let's go..

Me: *tries to put my hand on her shoulders for the picture, but she brushes me off*

*on the way out*

Me: My name is M by the way.

Her: I'm claire

*shakes hands*

*outside now*

*We get out picture taken*

I won the bet, so i practically forgot to get her #, she just said, "There" then smiled :) and went back to work.

I failed to get her #, I actually never asked. But I never approached a girl of this level before.

It felt great! I swear it could be one of the best feeling in the world! :)

And I admit, approaching her, i was full of fear. (you know it) I'm going to start approaching 1 girl a day starting from now. :)

So if u have never approached a girl, the time is now. And if you are full of fear, dont wait for a bet to motivate you. Do it for yourself. I should have done this a long time ago.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thats a good way to get someone who is afraid to approach, like me. If someone bet me 50 bucks and I actually thought they would give it to me, I'd approach any chick maybe i wouldnt get a picture with her but i would approach.
 

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lol

I wish there was a non-approaching tax, that you had to pay 500 bux a year if you didnt get laid 5 times during a year, lets get congress to pass the No lay Bill.

Finally all those we vote into power actually using it for some good. :)
 

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The funny thing is, the HB 9 was just standing there.

As I stood up, and as I walked to her, I had no idea what to say.

Then there it is. Like natural instinct. You may say the wrong things. you may fail.

But failing is most definately better than not trying at all.

And believe me, it is. Even if she fully rejected me, which she didn't, approaching & trying is much better than thinking what could have been and kicking yourself afterwards.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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And let me be honest, if they guy told me, "i'm only kidding about the 55$.."

i'll be like, "aight, thanks for motivating me to approach that girl, i needed that experience anyway." :D
 

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Amen. I read somewhere about this guy who gave his friend 20$ and said he could keep it if he didnt approach 5 chicks. Ill be honest and say that this is the kind of motivation I need.
 

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for $55 ill number close her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Awesome field report...i totally agree...

All of you beginners out there should just start approaching and get rid of the nagging fear. You'll be a better person for it!

-Damian
 
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