"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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did 3 approach but no success. my 2 friends laughed at me. they told me im crazy to approach to any girl on the street.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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escaleraroyal said:
did 3 approach but no success. my 2 friends laughed at me. they told me im crazy to approach to any girl on the street.
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Look up a few canned openers or use: "Who lies more guys or girls?" These will be your training wheels until you start getting consistent approaches.

However, its most likely your not smiling when your approaching, or poor body language, soft voice tonality. It really doesn't matter what you say, but your delivery thats killing you.

And, don't give a **** about what your friends think. I do cold approaches all the time, everywhere, and its the main way I use to meet girls, and the most fun. Your friends are complete fools.
 
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Your friends laugh because they lack the sacks to go for it.
 
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Ouch, that hurts. Rejection is a bitter pill to swallow. The whole cold approach thing is a bit creepy if you ask me. Maybe you should join a group or something. Start a business. Raise money for something. That way you will at least have a reason for being other than picking up strange girls you see on the street.

Remember, 98% of what the "gurus" tell you is b.s.
 
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