"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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did 3 approach but no success. my 2 friends laughed at me. they told me im crazy to approach to any girl on the street.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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escaleraroyal said:
did 3 approach but no success. my 2 friends laughed at me. they told me im crazy to approach to any girl on the street.
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Look up a few canned openers or use: "Who lies more guys or girls?" These will be your training wheels until you start getting consistent approaches.

However, its most likely your not smiling when your approaching, or poor body language, soft voice tonality. It really doesn't matter what you say, but your delivery thats killing you.

And, don't give a **** about what your friends think. I do cold approaches all the time, everywhere, and its the main way I use to meet girls, and the most fun. Your friends are complete fools.
 
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Your friends laugh because they lack the sacks to go for it.
 
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Ouch, that hurts. Rejection is a bitter pill to swallow. The whole cold approach thing is a bit creepy if you ask me. Maybe you should join a group or something. Start a business. Raise money for something. That way you will at least have a reason for being other than picking up strange girls you see on the street.

Remember, 98% of what the "gurus" tell you is b.s.
 
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