"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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approach: Your Take!

sexyfaceme

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Approach , this alone talks volumes about "the guy" . An old player friend of mine once told me: " If you wanna know how much game a guy has watch how he approaches"

I've worked a lot on the way I approach. Earlier my eye-brows would go up and I made stiff body movements. Now Im much calm and relaxed..

what goes through your mind when you approach and what is the best way to approach ... Discuss. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PokerStar

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make sure i have a big smile. eye contact. during the convo i throw in a light neg hit.
 

In2theGame

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I'll chime in here. I think many guys have different methods that work for them. As for me, If a girl is checking me out and i look over and we keep EC, i smile a bit and im not sure how to explain it but i have one of those left arched eye brows that if i smile i goes higher than my right lol sounds strange i guess but that gives off a sign like "oooo heeyyy" and the girls like it. so i may say something to open up and if she smiles or laughs, im in and i ask for the number and to hang out. All the girls i ever dated said i have a seductive type of approach where i wont just ask for the number or whatever but mostly make a comment about her smile and make her blush. When i met my recent ex, Man my game was pretty damn strong, i used to make her smile so much that one time she ran off into the bathroom because she wanted to hide her huge smile. Even recently, My best friends girlfriends friend, Hot brunette, i gamed it smoothly and she was smiling so much that she put her head on my chest because she was smiling so much. My ex of a LONG time ago i remember my game was on the rise i made her tear from the "sweet things" i would say lol. Anyway... Keep the mood light, if you approach cold, See her reaction, get a feel for a girls look towards you. Is she smiling? is she making strong EC? Is she glancing over at you more than twice? did you make quick EC with her and she gave off a quick smile? if so,.. go in and say Hey and if shes feeling it... should be no problem as long as you keep it cool.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sexyfaceme

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In2thegame: that was good!

what up guys! I thought this is the don Juan forum!
 

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I only approach if and only if she looked at me like she wanted me to fvck her......i havent been getting too many looks because i have a pissed off look about me and i dont like smiling
 
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